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Why be a swinger?

Why be a swinger?

Humans are not predisposed to being swingers, meaning that most of us are all about growing up, marrying a person we love and only being with them. However, there are some people that have argued that humans are all about being promiscuous and want to sleep with a lot of people while others state we are just meant to be with a single person. If DNA, how we are raised, and society does not make a person or couple swingers, then what makes a person want to be a swinger? There are a lot of reasons but the biggest one is that they don’t want to split up or cheat.

When a person has a strong desire to sleep with someone else, but they are still in love with that person they don’t want to split up and they don’t want to lie about what they want either.

It could also be because that person is bisexual. Sometimes, the only way that they can be fully satisfied is by swinging. Some often state its unfair to only sleep with one gender, but when a person is sleeping with the same gender and their partner knows about it, then they don’t consider it cheating.

It could also be that their sex life is completely dead but the bond that they have is not. There are some couples that happen to lose that special sexual spark but are completely in love with each other and lead a very satisfying life together, but don’t feel that they need to miss out on the sexual aspects of it.

These are very common reasons that a person becomes a swinger. A lot of the times, each partner knows what the other is doing and nothing is ever kept secret. Becoming a swinger is something that should be discussed with your partner.

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