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Swinger Exhaustion – It Happens

Swinger Exhaustion – It Happens

When you first get into the swinger way of life, you will often notice that you are always tired. It is not always from sex, but trying to balance a very vanilla daily life with your naughty swinging can be hard.

Entering into this type of lifestyle can be very time consuming, and if you are like me and tend to work a lot, then you know that it can be a really long and drawn out type of process. I am not the hook up with on the first day, but I like to take my time and get to know someone or a couple before I move onto that part.

Once you get into swinging, your so called sex card is going to fill up really fast and people are going to want to set up playdate after playdate, but if you work a lot, it can be hard to find time for that part of your life.

The whole process can be draining. You can hit walls with trying to set up a playdate and then the timeline gets much longer to try and accommodate that lifestyle. If you are dating other couples, then it can be hard to make time for sexy time. Even though some of my closest friends are cool with my clutter, a potential swinger couple may not and then it takes more time to become accommodating.

There can often be a struggle to find a healthy balance between play and work. There are going to be times when you cannot do anything even though you want to but stress at work or family spill over and kill your libido and energy. The best advice to give about this is just to be okay with saying no. There are going to be plenty more options in the future.

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