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Swinger Body Image Issues

Believe it or not, it is not just the vanilla community that tend to have body image issues. Many within the swinger community deal with that same thing. It can be hard to really push yourself to have body confidence, and sometimes it can be very hard to do that. Body image is how you feel about yourself when it comes to your sexuality and looks, which are often pushed onto you to be a certain way through media or others.

A person can gain a lot of positive body confidence especially when your partner or swinger partner make you feel sexy, if they tell you that you are sexy and desirable. The more that you hear and feel this, the more positive that your body image is going to be and that is going to push your confidence through the roof. When you meet other swingers, then you will notice that every single person is going to be different. We come in all shapes and sizes, and this should keep you from worrying about how you fit in that community. When you take a leap and post on dating sites, when your photos or profile get likes and commented on, it boosts your confidence as well.

It is perfectly okay to feel comfortable in your own skin, whether you have stretch marks, scars, or a bit of extra cushion. Whether you are straight or even bisexual or gay, be more body confident. Get in bed with your partner and then leave the light on. Don’t hide under the sheets.

Wrapping up

Reinforcing a positive body image is going to definitely push your confidence up. Even if you look 10 out of 10, you can have a bad body image, especially to yourself. Never be ashamed of who you are naturally.

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