Are You A Vanilla?

  Are you a vanilla?  You may not be familiar with the term, but if you're exploring the world of sex toys, erotica, swinging & poly, you'll hear the term "vanilla" to describe the "normals."  The monogamous. The mainstream.  The typical. When I was younger, I was probably the most non-vanilla of my family & friends.  I protested bans on gay marriage and went to sex shops when I turned 18....

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