How to Know If You Are Vanilla
The biggest question that you could ever ask yourself is if you are vanilla? But, what does vanilla really mean? If you are a typical, mainstream and monogamous person then you are considered a normal person or a vanilla.
There is nothing wrong with being vanilla. Many people often start out as being vanilla and then work their way into more erotic and exotic things. You may have been the type of person that went to sex shops and had the variety of vibrators, dildos and unique sex items. You were the person that never had a three some or cheated. You were completely monogamous. Eventually, you wanted to be completely open with your sexuality and decide that it was a time for a change.
Even though with todays society, being completely open with your sexuality is a bit taboo, but in order to fit into a particular mold of society, you kept that part that was sensual and looking to explore kept in a box.
It is perfectly fine for a person to reevaluate what they want in life, or even in sex. Celebrating sexuality is okay now, but only at certain normal events. People are starting to be more open minded and there are some that are really pushing the limits with sexual exploration. Just because you feel normal, does not always mean that you are vanilla. You may just have that part of yourself in a box waiting for the right person or moment to let it out.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to spice up your vanilla life and add some adventure, then do not be afraid to explore everything that you can sexually. It may be a bit intimidating at first, but just let go and see where it takes you.