Without Further Ado, The Satisfyer 2 Review

So, the Satisfyer 2.  You've probably seen the Satisfyer line make it's way around with all the sex toy review bloggers, and yes- I've hopped on that caboose.  Choo choo! The Satisfyer is a competitor to the Womanizer, which pretty much anyone can agree that without the terrible name, the cheesy design and the addition of a "y" for a bit of flair, the Satisfyer came on the market to...

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Swinging Down South- Reflections of a Year Of Open Living in a Red State

Where we live, it doesn't snow, ever.  It's a red state with the most terrible sex stores along the highway, and more strip clubs than theaters, but it's home. When we decided to dip our toes in the non-monogamy waters, we had no idea how it would work in a conservative state. Needless to say, at first it was awkward. I attended Girls Uncorked (swinger mixers) at houses that had...

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Everyone Needs A Hot Pink Cock- A VixSkin Mustang Silicone Dildo by Vixen Creations Review

Would you believe I've never really owned a dildo? Like, really. At 18, I had one of those gross phaltate-laden rabbit vibes, but I haven't really gone back to anything dick-like since. Everything in my arsenal was typically the rechargeable, vibrating type.  Some had shafts, but usually the phallic-ness of it was part of a double duty feature. The VixSkin Mustang Silicone Dildo comes in some realistic colors, but honestly- everyone...

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Reflections on a Week At Desire

  We booked our trip to Desire for the Swingset Takeover back in April.  At that point, we were really new to the lifestyle and hoped we'd be ready for the trip by the time it arrived.   We both had our reservations about the trip- the male half of this twosome was a bit worried about being naked all the time and what that would feel like, and I...

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Something Old, Something New: A Personal Sexual Evolution

The LELO Nea was my first big girl vibrator.  After having a few rounds of terrible jelly vibrators, I wanted to go battery-less and get something I could recharge, that was quiet and discreet and would last beyond the cheap toys I'd had previously. I don't even remember where I bought it- probably online, but I've had this one toy for over 6 years now (I think!) and it's been...

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Stumbling Forward…Figuring Out What You Want & Need In the Lifestyle

It's been nearly a month since my last post.  Part of me thinks this is insane, and part of me realizes it's been a busy month with many deep breaths along the way to wonder when the sexy part of my brain is going to switch back on. I've been working. A lot. Like, a fucklot. Over the last 30 days, I got a promotion.  I started some new projects, sold...

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Dealing With Body Image Issues As A Swinger

  If you're entering the world of swinging, there can be a few stumbling blocks in the way before you truly find your stride.  In the beginning, when we (as a heterosexual, white couple) entered into this world, we read plenty of content geared for newbies that was focused on jealousy, emotional connections and keeping a existing relationship intact when new partners and scenarios are introduced. For us, while there was...

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Tauntus Bend Over Beginner Strap On Kit Review

I was really excited to get my hands on our first tools for a fun pegging session.   While I had been in to many a sex shop in my pre-lifestyle life and had seen an array of strap on devices, it never occurred to me that I may need one, so I never gave it much thought. As the other Vanilla-half and I listened to more Life on the...

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Adventures In Female Ejaculation: Dude. I Finally Squirted.

Female ejaculation.  It's one of those things that in the sexy savvy circles seems to things to aspire to- well at least, I was aspiring to.  I've read a ton of bloggers are able to do it and of course, wanted to join the cool club and learn how to squirt myself. Except, that for the longest time, I friggin' couldn't. I tried everything.  I've had vibrators, I've even picked up...

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How To Meet People In The Swinging Lifestyle

So, how to meet people in the swinging lifestyle?  It's one of those questions we all ask when we want to give this swinging thing a go but we're not sure where to start?  If you're new to the lifestyle, it can be really intimidating to try and find other likeminded people- especially if you're not really sure if it's a good fit for you as a couple. When the...

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